CompassionateLove Radio. Domestic Abuse/Rape, Danita’s Story

CompassionateLove Radio: Combatting Stigma with Stories 

(c)2016  Nancy Virden, Always the Fight Ministry

Senior woman with sunglasses and tape on her mouth, victim of domestic violence
Senior woman with sunglasses and tape on her mouth, victim of domestic violence

Show # 1:  Domestic Abuse/Rape  

(Audio under repair)

Danita is a survivor of marital rape.

Her oh-so-charming, suit-wearin’ and church attendin’ husband had for years secretly undermined his wife by practicing what is best known as “gaslighting.”  Gaslighting is a confounding behavior that leaves spouses and significant others questioning their own judgment, intelligence, and value. Gaslighting occurs when an abuser purposely creates confusing or negative scenarios to confuse the intended victim, thus setting up an opportunity to ridicule, blame, lie, or appear the hero. As in all abuse, gaslighting is about power and control.

Danita never suspected he would resort to physical harm. One of the lesser understood characteristics of abuse is that it progresses. Danita’s husband’s obsession with power and control over his wife turned into violence and violation. Now Danita is eager to confront the stigma that helps keep women like her in the shadows.

Wednesday August 24, 2016, as the first guest on CompassionateLove Radio, Danita will openly share her story with the world. You do not want to miss it!



NOTE: I am not a doctor or mental health professional. I speak only from personal experiences with and observations of mental illness. In no way is this website intended to substitute for professional mental health care.

If you are struggling emotionally today or feeling suicidal, or concerned about someone who is, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Hope and help is yours.

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