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Then There is This Peace-of-Mind: A Response to Recent Violence

Compassionate Love Blog: Displaying compassion for those who struggle with mental illness   (c)2016  Nancy Virden, Always the Fight Ministry

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It seems in the chaos of recent days, people are growing more fearful, focusing on a negative “what if?” What if situations do not change? What if violence escalates? What if it touches me or my family?  On this Sunday, as many of us return home from worship, I invite you to ask with me, what if we consider God in all of this?

The following is from Always the Fight 2nd ed. (c)2015. 

“It has taken a long time to begin to see suffering as a blessing. The same Master Designer created both night and day. God, who saw every detail of our unformed bodies before we were born, who knew every one of our minutes before one of them occurred, is not surprised by our pain. He is not taken aback, has everything under control, and loves us still.

You see, the struggle is the plan.

It is in the not-seeing, the not-understanding that we reach out in the dark. Shuffling our feet across unknown terrain, arms outstretched and hearts beating fast, it is in pitch-blackness we search for wisdom, and grow.

Faith is not sight. Quite the opposite. It is the evidence of what is unseen. Pain often draws all of our attention, narrowing our vision to a few moments in time. That is why our faith will not thrive if limited to what we can understand. A more magnificent purpose is at play. Gold can only be made pure through fire, and if our faith is to be refined as gold, it must be tried and tested. Saint Paul even speaks of considering it a joy whenever we face troubles!

Major depression has been humbling. I am broken, but for a purpose. God has chosen to allow me to fall into the pit for the opportunity of teaching me how to climb out of it.”

Father God, In Your mercy, may our cities and nations ascend from this fear and pain with humility, willingness to lean on You, and wisdom. Amen.

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NOTE: I am not a doctor or mental health professional. I speak only from personal experiences with and observations of mental illness. In no way is this website intended to substitute for professional mental health care.

If you are struggling emotionally today or feeling suicidal, or concerned about someone who is, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Hope and help is yours.

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The “Sleepwalker” Statue and a “Lively Conversation”

Compassionate Love:Displaying compassion for those who struggle with mental illness   (c)2014 Nancy Virden

Art is art, so they say, and freedom of speech is, well, free. We Americans like these premises most of the time. 

Years ago, in Cleveland, Ohio there was a KKK rally held downtown.  Close to that time a Cleveland-area suburban black family woke to a burning cross on their front yard. What do you think the reactions of the children from that home, now grown, might be to a statue of a KKK member placed near where they live?

At Wellesley College, an all women school in Massachusetts, an artist designed and built a life-like statue of a man wearing only his underwear, stumbling across the lawn with his arms outstretched. Sleepwalker.

Students are protesting and asking for its removal because it is frightening and a reminder of the threat of assault.  Wellesley’s President likes the ensuing controversy because it has caused “lively conversation.”

In both cases, I believe we are talking about something more damaging than political incorrectness.  

Due to a variety of flaws in our data collecting process, and the fact most victims of sexual abuse do not report it,  statistics on these crimes are incomplete. With the more consistent statistics we do have, the Cleveland Rape Crisis Center has concluded that 1 in 4 girls are victims of sexual abuse before the age of 18:

“In addition to low self-esteem; sense of worthlessness; abnormal view of sex; mistrust; anxiety and depression that many of these girls may carry into adulthood, young people who were raped or endured an attempted rape as adolescents are over 10% more likely to experience the same in their first year of college.” **

Is it possible that a quarter of Wellesley’s students have been sexually abused as minors? Absolutely. It is not just victims of prior assaults who are reminded of very real fears by Sleepwalker. 

I believe Sleepwalker is significantly offensive and makes light of the power of image to incite fear and traumatization. 

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NOTE: I am not a doctor or mental health professional. I speak only from personal experiences and observations of mental illness. In no way is this website intended to substitute for professional mental health care.If you are struggling emotionally today or feeling suicidal, or concerned about someone who is, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline     1-800-273-TALK (8255). Hope and help can be yours.

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*Sexual Violence on College Campuses, Cleveland Rape Crisis Center website, Resources section, retrieved from http://www.clevelandrapecrisis.org/resources/statistics/sexual-violence-on-college-campuses on February 9, 2014

*U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families, Administration on Children, Youth and Families, Children’s Bureau. (2011). Child Maltreatment 2010. Available from https://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cb/research-data-technology/statisti…
*Statistics About Child Sexual Abuse, Cleveland Rape Crisis Center Resources section, retrieved from http://www.clevelandrapecrisis.org/resources/statistics/about-child-sexual-abuse on February 9, 2014